Self Improvement - Becoming A Better You Now
*
*
*
*
 

Recommended Reading

Positive Habits
Power Course
A Great Day!
Affirmation Software
Improvement Tips
The Top 101 Experts

More Resources

 

*
 



Special Offer
More Info

 


The Master Key System
by Charles F Haanel


A classic work of self-improvement, Charles F Haanel's Master Key System is rumored as being the book that caused Bill Gates to drop-out of university and pursue his dreams. Here is the complete and original course in 24 x eBooks. The principles in this System are True 
today as they were in Bill Gate's time.

 

Relaxing With A Mental PDA

Your 5 minutes daily program to Stress management

"Stress Management" is a topic which has been covered by many people. I found that out when I started to research this article. What I've tried to do here is to extract the more important stress management techniques and summarize them.

We all have this favorite expression when it comes to being stressed out, and I wouldn't bother naming all of them since it may also vary in different languages. But when it comes down to it, I think that it is how we work or even relax, for that matter that triggers stress. Ever been stressed even when you're well relaxed and bored? I know I have.

Stress is unavoidable in life, it is important to find ways to decrease and prevent stressful incidents and decrease negative reactions to stress. Here are some of the things that can be done by just remembering it, since life is basically a routine to follow like brushing your teeth or eating breakfast. You can do a few of them in a longer span of time, but as they say-- every minute counts.

Managing time

Time management skills can allow you more time with your family and friends and possibly increase your performance and productivity. This will help reduce your stress.

To improve your time management:

  • Save time by focusing and concentrating, delegating, and scheduling time for yourself.
  • Keep a record of how you spend your time, including work, family, and leisure time.
  • Prioritize your time by rating tasks by importance and urgency. Redirect your time to those activities that are important and meaningful to you.
  • Manage your commitments by not over- or undercommitting. Don't commit to what is not important to you.
  • Deal with procrastination by using a day planner, breaking large projects into smaller ones, and setting short-term deadlines.
  • Examine your beliefs to reduce conflict between what you believe and what your life is like.

Build healthy coping strategies

It is important that you identify your coping strategies. One way to do this is by recording the stressful event, your reaction, and how you cope in a stress journal. With this information, you can work to change unhealthy coping strategies into healthy ones-those that help you focus on the positive and what you can change or control in your life.

Lifestyle

There’s no real “secret” to all of this, but having all the information about it helps you to make the right decisions. As with any subject or activity, you want to know as much as possible before moving forward. The following information should help you make the right choices on this in the future.

Some behaviors and lifestyle choices affect your stress level. They may not cause stress directly, but they can interfere with the ways your body seeks relief from stress. Try to:

  • Balance personal, work, and family needs and obligations.
  • Have a sense of purpose in life.
  • Get enough sleep, since your body recovers from the stresses of the day while you are sleeping.
  • Eat a balanced diet for a nutritional defense against stress.
  • Get moderate exercise throughout the week.
  • Limit your consumption of alcohol.
  • Don't smoke.

Social support

Social support is a major factor in how we experience stress. Social support is the positive support you receive from family, friends, and the community. It is the knowledge that you are cared for, loved, esteemed, and valued. More and more research indicates a strong relationship between social support and better mental and physical health.

Changing thinking

When an event triggers negative thoughts, you may experience fear, insecurity, anxiety, depression, rage, guilt, and a sense of worthlessness or powerlessness. These emotions trigger the body's stress, just as an actual threat does. Dealing with your negative thoughts and how you see things can help reduce stress.

  • Thought-stopping helps you stop a negative thought to help eliminate stress.
  • Disproving irrational thoughts helps you to avoid exaggerating the negative thought, anticipating the worst, and interpreting an event incorrectly.
  • Problem solving helps you identify all aspects of a stressful event and find ways to deal with it.
  • Changing your communication style helps you communicate in a way that makes your views known without making others feel put down, hostile, or intimidated. This reduces the stress that comes from poor communication. Use the assertiveness ladder to improve your communication style.

Even writers like me can get stressed even though we're just using our hands to do the talking, but having to sit for 7 or 8 hours is already stressful enough and have our own way to relieve stress. Whether you're the mail guy, the CEO, or probably the average working parent, stress is one unwanted visitor you would love to boot out of your homes, especially your life.

There is a lot more to learn about this topic, but an article can only cover so much ground. I hope you have found at least parts of this article useful and informative. If you haven’t already, bookmark this page for future reference. Do a search on this topic in your favorite search engine and you can learn even more!


Latest News
  • Curfew relaxation peaceful

    United News of India Ratlam, Sept 6: Curfew was relaxed in two local police station areas from 0800-1000 hrs and 1600-1800 hrs today and no violence was reported during the intervals, official sources said.

  • VIEWS TO THE WORLDS: Relaxation leaves students in the dark

    Alex Walson is a junior urban planning major and writes "View to the Worlds" for the Daily News. His views do not necessarily agree with those of the newspaper. Write to Alex at awalson@bsu.edu.

  • Labor Day not relaxing for those with two jobs

    HOMEWOOD, AL (WBRC) - Labor Day was a day of rest and relaxation for many people, but some are forced to work not one, but two jobs because of the economy.

  • Field Calibration Engineer

    Software development services from myvillage developers. Feel intense relaxation and wellness accompanied by a deep healing process. The globe pub, serving a wide selection of drinks and bistro food.

  • Kent 3BR, Bairstow Eves are delighted to offer this

    Software development services from myvillage developers. Feel intense relaxation and wellness accompanied by a deep healing process.

  • Spin in cotton exports: The saga continues

    While cotton growers are pleased at the increase in cotton prices, boosted by relaxation of export curbs, the textile industry, particularly apparel exporters, seem uneasy.

  • Small Illinois Town Celebrates Big For Labor Day Weekend

    COLCHESTER, Ill. (WGEM)-- While most people use the Labor Day weekend to get some much needed rest and relaxation, one small town gears up for one of its biggest celebrations.

  • Quick Study: Fibromyalgia:

    THE QUESTION Might the pain and fatigue of fibromyalgia be relieved by tai chi, the mind-body exercise of Chinese origin that combines gentle, graceful, continuous movements with deep breathing and relaxation techniques? Fibromyalgia - Health - Musculoskeletal Disorders - Conditions and Diseases - Connective Tissue

  • Honda CBF1000 2009

    Software development services from myvillage developers. The globe pub, serving a wide selection of drinks and bistro food. Feel intense relaxation and wellness accompanied by a deep healing process.

  • CHI retreat package at Shangri-La’s Mactan Resort and Spa

    Before the holiday rush begins, find a personal sanctuary of rest and relaxation with the "CHI Retreat Package" exclusively offered at Shangri-La’s Mactan Resort and Spa, Cebu. Unparalleled luxury awaits guests booking this package as they are pampered with a minimum of two nights stay at one of the resort’s luxurious rooms, coupled with opulent treatments at CHI, The Spa.

*
   
Copyright © 2006 DKS Enterprises, 360 E Tuttle Rd Suite 320, Ionia, Mi 48846 USA (616) 522-0399 Email Me With Any Questions Or Suggestions